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The Pros And Cons Of Marriage, According To Our Astro Anniversary

When we consider getting married, there are a lot of little details to look at and talk over, from tablecloths and napkins to bridesmaids’ dresses and groomsmen’s ties and loads in between. When we are drowning in flower choices and have eaten too many cake samples, it can all seem very overwhelming and lead many of us to wonder if marriage is even a good idea after all. For all we know, we are spending countless hours and money on something that won’t suit us or will implode sometime down the road.

If this is the boat you are in, the first thing to do is take a deep breath. You are putting all this time and effort in not to have the perfect wedding day but to signal to everyone who cares that you have found the love of your life and intend to spend the rest of your days with them. But if you’re still a little antsy, have another look at the wedding date. Maybe changing that to a different one will help. And if not, you can at least get a glimpse of what is in store for you as the years go by. That is what the rest of the married readers are doing.

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20 An All-Consuming Fire

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We all know that fire is often used to represent passions. Thus, it doesn’t take much to reason that a fiery marriage is full of passion and the marriages that take place during a fire sign are passionate ones. As Astrology Zo. Signs points out, “Roughly interpreted, Earth will go well with Water, and Fire will go well with Air.

This is quite logical if you think about it, for Water gives Earth its fertility and brings us to life, while Air keeps the Fire burning and sparks the light and our power of creation.”

The signs for fire are Aries who begins, Leo who steadies, and Sagittarius, who ends.

19 Sagittarius — Adventurous Risk-Takers

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November 22 through December 21 is when Sagittarius rules. If you have always longed to travel the world and go on grand adventures with your true love, then this is the wedding season for you. Sagittarius couples are known for their sense of adventure.

But you have to really watch the pocketbook because it will take a blow from all your adventuring and risk-taking.

According to Brides, “The Sagittarius couple is very outgoing, adventurous, and worldly. There will most likely be a lot of travel in your future. You're constantly learning and taking classes together, and you're both incredibly open-minded as well.”

18 Capricorn — The Traditional Couple

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December 22 to January 19 is the time of the Capricorns. These couples are highly traditional and very family oriented. There are many benefits for you with this sign —especially if you want to raise kids with all your favorite traditions.

But you have to be careful not to get swept up in preserving the past and planning the future to the point where you lose the present.

As Your Tango says, “Getting married during Capricorn season means your marriage is going to be nothing but successful, so congratulations. You are both so invested in each other’s happiness that it would be impossible for you to think of your relationship as anything but successful.”

17 Aquarius — The Unconventional Couple

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Couples who get married between January 20 and February 18 are Aquarius couples. You will be known for your unconventional, quirky marriage that works perfectly for you and leaves everyone else in wonder or simply shocked. In the midst of all your socializing, you need to make sure you connect one-on-one to keep the marriage strong. You can very easily get lost in all your endless friendships. According to Your Tango,

“The Aquarius marriage can best be described as unconventional, quirky, and modern.

You're each other's best friend, but you're also a very social couple that hosts a ton of parties.”

16 Wet Like Water

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Life needs water, and where there is no water, there is no life. With water signs, there is an abundance of water and intense emotions working through which keeps us all connected. The signs for water are Cancer who begins, Scorpio who steadies and Pisces who ends. According to Astrology Zo. Signs, “All four elements speak of certain tendencies each sign has simply because it belongs to one of them. They help us understand that there are other ways of looking at each individual, give us patience for those that are different from us, and make it clearer why some signs are more compatible than others.”

15 Pisces — Ruled By Romance

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If your wedding date falls between February 19 and March 20, you will have a Pisces marriage. Imagine all the best romances you have ever seen or read and then realize that your marriage will likely topple them. While your marriage will be high in the love department, you will have trouble getting back down to reality, so schedule that in between all your romantic dinners and get-aways. As Brides says,

“Pisces is the sign of fantasy, imagination, romance, and creativity. You and your hubby are no doubt an incredibly dreamy match.

Expect vow renewals and anniversary getaways in your future.”

14 Aries — Sparks Fly Wildly

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March 21 to April 19 is Aries time, and boy, are you in for a wild ride with an Aries marriage! You will attack everything in your way with energy and enthusiasm — and you will make each other stronger as you race to the finish line. But you will also have very intense and spontaneous fights with the threat of competing against each other always hovering. As Your Tango says, “You challenge each other to get out of your comfort zones and try new things, which makes every day feel like a new adventure, and your influence on one another means you’re always striving to be better people.”

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13 Taurus — Luxuriously Devoted

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With a date between April 20 and May 20, you will get a Taurus marriage, and those are the most down-to-Earth marriages around. You and your spouse will be able to handle anything in your way together with solid teamwork and clear thinking. You do need to watch out for falling into a rut; remember, it is okay to spice things up for a change. As Your Tango points out,

“Your marriage is a solid one, built on a foundation that is stronger than most.

In other words, nothing and no one is able to bring it down because you trust each other more than you do outsiders.”

12 The Air We Breathe

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We can all agree that life without air would be pretty tough and a little bit weird. Air flows between us and keeps everything balanced. Without air, we would drown in all the water and earth, while fire would simply not exist. The signs for air are Libra who begins, Aquarius who steadies and Gemini who finishes. According to Astrology Zo. Signs,

“This is the element that connects all other elements, even though it might seem less relevant, invisible as it is.

The distance from the nature of Earth lifts us up high, in impractical and mental planes that don’t satisfy our physical needs.”

11 Gemini — Communicate Priorities

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Wedding dates between May 21 and June 20 are Gemini marriages. With this sign, you will have an adventurous marriage with a foundation built on communication. You both will talk so much that you’ll need to read the dictionary to find more words to use. You do need to make sure that you don’t overdo it, however. Take some time for non-talking activities and prioritize your couple-time. Your Tango advises,

“Since you crave variety, keep things interesting by taking part in new activities together.

Sign up for an exotic cooking class, learn how to surf this summer, or even go skydiving if you're up for it.”

10 Cancer — Nurturing Till Clingy

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Cancer season is June 21 to July 22 and results in a very traditional marriage set during the prime of wedding season. When all the fuss is over, you will still be wrapped up in your spouse doing newlywed things and simply enjoying each other. At this point, you will need to schedule some outdoor activities with a splash of alone time to maintain your individuality. Brides says,

“Home is where the heart is for Cancers. You really like to pamper your husband (and vice versa).

Cooking together is another shared interest. And don't be surprised if you have a lot of cutesy nicknames for each other.”

9 Leo — A Powerhouse Of Dramatics

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Marriages that take place between July 23 and August 22 are Leo marriages. If this is your wedding date, be prepared for lots of drama (from just the two of you) and intense passion. You will be able to handle anything thrown at you, but you will be in danger of imploding via a power struggle between the two of you. Brides says,

“Leo couples are likely to have a very dramatic, theatrical, and passionate marriage. You both have strong opinions, and you're certainly not shy about sharing them.

While it's nice that there's a lot of romance and passion, you do have a habit of getting too dramatic sometimes.”

8 Get Down To Earth

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Earth is the base of all the other elements and life as we know it. Without earth, life, in general, would look vastly different. Earth is what anchors us to reality and keeps us steady and real. It balances the unreality of air and cooperates with fire and water to provide life and nurture it. According to Astrology Zo. Signs,

“Without it, life in this form wouldn’t be possible and you would be unable to taste, touch, smell, or even listen.

This means that manifestation of all things depends on the element of Earth.” The signs for earth are Capricorn, Taurus, and Virgo.

7 Virgo — Nothing Short Of Perfection

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A wedding between August 23 and September 22 is a Virgo marriage. Virgos are very neat, tidy and organized people who will methodically tackle all of life’s problems one by one. You do need to watch out for being critical of each other. Perfect is a nice but unachievable goal no matter how much effort you put toward it. According to Your Tango,

“Virgo is an extremely organized, refined, and healthy sign. You and your husband pay attention to the little things and you're all about the details.

He's your cheerleader and you're his, which is why helping each other out comes so naturally.”

6 Libra — Balance Is Key

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A Libra marriage occurs between September 23 and October 22. You and your spouse will bring balance to each other’s lives and find true happiness together. There might not be a lot of public displays of affection, but you are each other’s world. As your marriage progresses, you will need to make sure you each get some alone time to maintain your individuality, so you don’t morph into each other. According to Brides,

“Libra is the sign that rules marriage. This is probably why October is one of the biggest wedding months.

Libra marriages are, not surprisingly, very much about balance and give and take from both partners.”

5 Scorpio — High Levels Of Passion

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A Scorpio wedding takes place between October 23 and November 21, resulting in a highly-passionate and life-long union. You will put each other first and pour all your energy into your passion for your spouse. The flip side to all this intense emotion is that you will get jealous very easily, so make sure you have strong and clear communication lines running. According to Your Tango,

“Scorpio is an extremely intense sign.

There's bound to be a ton of affection and passion in your marriage, and you should have no problem keeping the romance alive over the years.”

4 Bonus: Leo Rules The Roost

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It bears repeating here that Leos are very passionate people and you will likely spend a large portion of your time flirting with your spouse like a bunch of newlyweds decades down the road. Romantic getaways and intense, all-out fights will be the milestones of your time together. Your Tango adds another little gem to your crown as well, stating,

“Leo season marriages are not something that everyone can handle, but no one can deny that they are incredibly exciting.

You’re known as the trend-setters not just because of your beautiful home and matching outfits, but because of your strong bond.”

3 Bonus: Virgo For The Win

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If you are still deciding on a wedding date and want something that will guarantee you a very strong, lasting and happy marriage, then look no further than Virgo season. As Your Tango points out,

“Couples married during Virgo season often have such strong marriages because they believe in being very close friends before being anything else.

And this connection is apparent to everyone around them, too. In fact, you set the standard for how couples should act after getting married because you do it so well.” Your marriage will be strong and steady with this Earth sign backing you up.

2 Bonus: Aquarius Changes The Rules

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If your dream wedding or spouse or ideal marriage is a bit outside the box, then an Aquarius wedding date is perfect for you. Nothing quite says “in your face, doubters” like a successful Aquarius union. So go ahead, think way outside the box and own it. As Your Tango says,

“When it comes to Aquarius marriages, there’s 'marriage rules,' and then there’s 'Aquarius rules.' The only thing you hate more than listening to other people’s opinions of your marriage is playing by the rules.

You believe that since it’s your life, then it’s also your marriage — and no one else gets to say otherwise, no ifs, ands or buts.”

1 Bonus: Pisces Is Real-Life Romance

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Nothing really beats a real-life romance, and a Pisces marriage is everything your romantic heart has ever dreamed of and more. So get all lovey-dovey and go the extra mile for your sweetie. Your Tango says,

“If anyone can make marriage look like a romantic movie where everything goes right, it’s a Pisces marriage. Not only are you two totally in love, but to be quite honest, you’re the closest thing to soulmates there is.

You always try to inject a little romance into your everyday lives, whether that means breakfast in bed, making out like teenagers or just using your words to express how much you love each other.”

References: Astrology Zo. SignsBridesYour TangoYour Tango

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