You can’t please everyone all the time. Let’s be real — we all have haters. It’s impossible to be liked all the time, and you know this because you probably complained or said something bad about someone you don’t like. It could have been out of spite, jealousy, or anything really. Let’s face it — people love to gossip and love the drama. When someone flirts with the guys all the time and gets a lot of attention from them, you’re going to tell your friends that she’s easy. When someone says something mean to you, you’re going to tell your friends that that person’s a jerk. Maybe you got into a huge fight with your BFF who’s no longer your BFF. Maybe your ex was possessive and jealous. There’s always something with someone. It shouldn’t surprise you when someone talks about you behind your back because you probably do it, too.
There’s going to be people who are not fond of you and people who love you. Even with the people who love you, there’s going to be something about you that they don’t like. Maybe you know what it is or maybe you don’t.
If you dare… take a look at what people say about you behind your back, based on your zodiac.
15 Sagittarius: "Her bluntness can be a breath of fresh air, but honesty isn't always the best policy."
A Sagittarius woman is straight up blunt. She doesn’t hold back on her opinions, and she always speaks her mind. She’s the person to go to if you want an honest opinion, but if you’re a bit more on the sensitive side, you might get offended. She doesn’t understand that honesty isn’t always the best policy. Sometimes she’ll say hurtful things to you, but because she’s oblivious to it, she’ll just carry on with the conversation. She has no filters, and she says the meanest things. Even if she didn’t intend to be mean to you, the damage has already been done. You need to have thick skin to be around her. Some might find her honesty refreshing, but she should still watch what she says to people.
14 Capricorn: "She's boring because she lacks spontaneity."
A Capricorn woman is probably the most boring sign of the zodiac. She’s smart. She can hold a conversation with you, but only if you’re into serious topics. She’s too serious to have any crazy stories of herself. If you want to be entertained, it’s best you find someone else. Gossips and celebrities are not her thing. She’ll instead talk about her goals and what she’ll do to achieve them. How is that exciting? It’s admirable that she’s ambitious and goal-oriented, but she’s not fun. She’s a planner. She has to plan everything out, so there’s no room for spontaneity. She’s not exactly the, “let’s just wing it,” type. When she’s out with friends, she’s the responsible one. She’s the designated driver, and the one to stop you from doing something you won’t remember the next day.
13 Aquarius: "She's quirky and creative. It's hard to understand her thoughts sometimes."
An Aquarius woman is one of a kind. She views things differently from a lot of people. She simply doesn’t believe in rules, so she rebels against them. When everyone goes hiking, she’ll go swimming instead. She’ll do the exact opposite of what you’re doing. It makes her interesting and independent. It’s sometimes hard to understand her thoughts though. When she explains something, you nod because you don't want to come off clueless. But, you really have no idea what she said. She’s very creative with ideas, too. You probably never even thought or heard of them. She can seem distant sometimes because she’s too deep in her thoughts. It’s like she’s not even with you. Overall, she doesn’t want to fit in, and she’ll do erratic things to make her point.
12 Pisces: "She doesn't take criticism well. You have to walk on eggshells around her."
A Pisces woman is the most emotional sign of the zodiac. She’s a dreamer, so she often gets lost in her fantasy world, and you have to bring her back to the reality. If you tell her to snap out of it, she won’t like it. You tell her to be less selfless because people will take advantage of her if she’s too giving, she’ll get upset. She can’t take any kind of criticism well. She absolutely hates confrontations. It’s difficult to say anything to her without worrying that you might make her cry. She seriously can’t control her emotions. You can’t even confront her when she’s wrong. She’s neither one to admit nor apologize for her mistakes, either. You have to walk on eggshells around her and be very careful with what you say to her.
11 Aries: "She's beautiful and driven, but way too brash and intimidating."
An Aries woman is self-absorbed and bossy. It’s always about her. She only wants to hear herself talk and doesn’t listen to you when you got something to say. She might instead tell you to shut up. Because patience is not her strongest suit, she’ll yell at you to hurry up every few seconds if you dare make her wait. She also has to be in charge of plans and everything else. She expects you to just roll with it, because she’s the leader and you’re one of her minions. If things don’t pan out the way she wanted, she’ll throw a fit. If you stand up to her and argue with her, she can be real feisty about it. Her words might be hurtful, but that’s your problem. She’s insensitive to your emotions.
10 Taurus: "She's very stuck in her ways and won't accept anything else otherwise."
A Taurus woman is ruled by the Bull and often referred to as the stubborn Bull. She’s a tad lazy and will do everything at her own pace no matter how long it takes. It’s the least of her problems, though. Her stubbornness is seriously no joke. When she’s made up her decision, you won't be able to persuade her. There’s nothing that can change her mind, and she won’t budge for anyone. Discussions? Save your breath. She won’t accept what you bring to the table because she’ll stand by her decision. She’ll fight back if you argue with her. She'll do it until you finally understand her point, and this can go on forever. The topic can be as simple as where to go on vacation or who’s the better actor in the TV show.
9 Gemini: "You never know what you're going to get with her. She molds to her surroundings."
A Gemini woman is known to be a two-faced, and that’s mainly because a Gemini symbolizes twins. Her dual personality often conflicts with each other, so you never know what you’re going to get with her. She’ll be happy one moment and angry the next. She makes promises to you and honestly, you can’t really believe her promises because Gemini is one of the flakiest sign of the zodiac. But, you still give her the benefit of the doubt. Surprise… it did not go through. She forgot or you found out she fulfilled that promise with someone else. She tells you she doesn’t like this person, but you see pictures of them together on social media like they’re the best of friends. It’s hard to keep up with her. She changes her mind way too much, and she’s never consistent with her words.
8 Cancer: "She's caring and understanding, but she can be a bit clingy."
A Cancer woman is caring and understanding. She gives you all the attention you need, and she’ll listen to your problems. She might even reach out to you later to make sure that you’re okay, and it's really thoughtful of her. She expects the same treatment from you and she should. It’s just that she can sometimes be a bit too much to handle. She’s a worrier, and she worries about literally everything. Because of her insecurity, she needs support and encouragement from you. She expects you to be there for her whenever she needs you, and it’s hard. You have your own life and all. When you don’t pick up her calls or call her back, she’ll wonder why. You get that she needs the emotional security, but she can be a bit clingy.
7 Leo: "She's always in the spotlight. She thinks she's better than everyone else."
A Leo woman expects to be treated like royalty. She always has to be in the spotlight, and when she isn’t, she’ll get upset. She needs to understand that it’s not always about her, her, and her. Because she has to be the center of attention, she tends to be “fashionably late” most of the time. It takes time to look fabulous, but she was inconsiderate of your time. It’s not like she was late to plans because of traffic or other legitimate excuses. It’s wrong. She also expects to be praised with compliments when she looks good, and that’s all the time. Maybe she’s insecure, and she needs reassurance, but still. She might even tell you that your outfit is off. She just thinks she’s better than everyone else.
6 Virgo: "Perfectionism gets the best of her. She's not only hard on herself. She's hard on everyone."
A Virgo woman is a perfectionist. Anything less than perfect is just not good enough for her. She’s very detail-oriented, and she’ll point out the flaws. When she's invited to your place for dinner and sees that the place is messy and there’s a day old used cup at the coffee table in the living room, she’ll let you know. The forks and the knives have to be in the right order, or she might lose it. Her criticisms can be hard to hear, and because she’s overly critical of a lot of things, she can be such a nagger. She nitpicks on everything, literally. She’s hard on herself as well as on everyone. She always tells you to do something to make it better or rather perfect.
5 Libra: "She has a strong sense of what's right and what's wrong, but she's hopeless when it comes to making a decision."
A Libra woman is the go-to person if you want a mediator. She has a strong sense of what’s right and what’s wrong, and she’ll make it fair so that everyone is happy. It’s great and all, but the problem is that she’s hopeless when it comes to making a decision. It doesn’t matter if its a choice between salad and pizza or something bigger. She takes a really long time to decide on what she wants. She's the last person to make a decision on everything like everyone agreed to go skiing, but she hasn't decided yet. She makes you wait for far too long. She’s definitely the person to avoid if you need someone to be the tie-breaker. She changes her mind so often, so you can’t really rely on her words. She’s so indecisive.
4 Scorpio: "She has trust issues, so she's always suspicious of you."
A Scorpio woman has trust issues. It’s probably one of the reasons why she’s so secretive of herself. She can’t trust people, and that goes for you, too. If you were to tell her that you’re too tired to go to the mall with her, and you’ve never backed down from shopping before, then she’ll get suspicious of you. She might either assume that you’re shopping now or you have plans with someone else later. Either way, it makes you uncomfortable when she asks you questions later. It’s like an interrogation. She’s like a detective who's trying to sniff the truth out of you, but she's wasting her time because you're not hiding anything from her. Overall, this makes her seem possessive and possibly jealous. Her suspicious nature really puts you off.
3 Taurus BONUS: "She's materialistic. She only wants the best."
A Taurus woman can be materialistic. She loves the finger things like fine dining, beautiful things, and just about anything luxurious. When you go shopping with her, she tends to look at luxury brands. She says that she’d rather splurge than spend money on something that lacks quality. It’s no wonder she only indulges herself in finer things. She only buys high-end products for clothes but also for curtains, plates, pens, and etc. She focuses more on these unimportant things than on you. You also won’t see her eating fast food. Cheap wine? Puh-lease. She loves to receive gifts, and it has to match her taste. She even prefers the man she dates to have a car, a house, and a high paying career. She’s materialistic all right.
2 Gemini BONUS: "When she wants to do something fun, she expects you to be there all the time."
A Gemini woman is spontaneous. She gets bored quickly, so she always looks for new adventures that will excite her. She doesn’t sit around and waste time which is good, but it’s not nice when she expects you to be there with her all the time. She doesn’t like to be alone, and it’s probably because the symbol for a Gemini is twins. She calls you at 12AM to attend a party. But you want to stay home, watch “How I Met Your Mother,” and then go to sleep because you got work the next day. When you do go out with her, a lot of things are done within the hour because she changes her mind so much. You’re at the movies then you’re at a bar, and so on. She’s fun, but she’s too much.
1 Scorpio BONUS: "She's very secretive of herself, but she wants to know everything about you."
A Scorpio woman is the most mysterious sign of the zodiac. She’s very secretive of herself, but she wants to know everything about you. She’ll get catty when you try to pry into her business, but it’s okay for her to pry into yours. She doesn’t reveal too much about who she is because she’s got trust issues, but she wants to know more about you. She’ll ask you questions like who’ve you dated, your favorite food, and just about anything. She’ll want to know your secrets like if you’ve ever cheated. It'll make her trust you less if you’re as secretive as her. She might not even tell you any of her secrets in return, either. Basically, she won't trust you with her secrets, but she expects you to trust her with yours. That seems unfair.