Honesty is usually the best policy, but when it comes to relationships sometimes withholding certain details can be more beneficial than harmful in most cases. Especially if you are trying to build your significant other up instead of tearing him down. We are by no means telling you to lie to your partner regularly, but if he were to ask you if he looks better than your ex, chances are, you’re going to tell him, “Yes, of course, you do!” It’s not necessarily that you want to lie to him, it’s just that you don’t want to hurt his feelings, right? Continue reading to learn what 10 secrets you should never tell him!
10 Your Full Intimate History
It seems like most guys can’t help but ask their girlfriend how many romantic partners she's had. If you have been with more than a few people and feel embarrassed by this (which you should never feel that since it's your life and not theirs), there is no harm in omitting some people from the final count that you decide to give him. There is no real reason why you should ever have to disclose exactly how many people you have been intimate with at all.
9 That You Dislike His Family Or Best Friend
Your boyfriend’s family has been in his life a lot longer than you have. There is also a pretty good chance that his best friend has been there for him longer than you as well. Telling him that you don’t like his family or closest friend can sometimes open up a whole new can of worms that some people aren’t ready for. So, sometimes it is honestly easier to say nothing.
If the roles were reversed, we would most likely tell people that he isn’t too fond of those that are closest to us. Which means that there is a good chance that if you would confide this secret to him, that your secret distaste for his loved one wouldn’t necessarily stay with just him.
8 Your Ex Was Better Looking Than Him
No one really ever wants to purposely hurt their significant other’s feelings, just like we wouldn’t want them to hurt us. That is why if your guy ever asks you if your ex looked better than him, even if it is the truth, you should never agree with that statement. You are better off keeping that secret to yourself. You should always try to help build him up and tell him that he looks so much better than your ex or possibly even better than anyone you have ever dated.
7 Minor Doubts Your Having About Him
Sometimes having minor doubts about your partner can be completely normal. But unless it is something major or if it is something that could potentially change or end your relationship, there is no reason to discuss these minor doubts.
Some people may even worry that perhaps they made the wrong decision about choosing him over someone else. While others may simply wonder whether or not he is “the one.” These are all examples of doubts that should remain a secret.
6 If There Is Something You Dislike About Him That He Honestly Can’t Change
Your guy might have mannerisms or do certain things that may annoy you, but that he honestly cannot change or doesn’t know how to change. Maybe he has a weird voice or he talks with his hands. Those are little things that should be kept away from him. The reason you want to keep it a secret is that you don't want to offend him or hurt his feelings when you really don’t need to. If you really want to be with someone you should accept and ignore the little things he does or says that drives you crazy.
5 That You’re Crushing On One Of His Friends
Boyfriends love when you can get along with their friends, it shows that you are willing to be one of the boys. It's great when you can get close to his friends, but you should never get too close. If you do end up getting some type of feelings for his friends you need to keep that to yourself. You wouldn’t want to know if your boyfriend had a crush on one of your friends. And if it’s just a crush, it will pass because of how much you care about him. There is no need to raise red flags for no reason.
4 What You Do With All Of Your Own Personal Cash
You work hard for your money and you should be able to spend it on whatever you like. You don’t have to tell your boyfriend every little thing that you buy. If he demands that you tell him, be aware that it is a sign of control issues.
So, feel free to spend your money on things that make you happy. Go to your favorite store and buy bath bombs or stop at that fancy bakery you love; you've worked hard and you deserve to treat yourself.
3 What Your Friends And Family Really Say About Him
We’ve all heard if you don't have anything nice to then don't say anything at all. Well, this is never true when it comes to what your friends and family have to say about the guy you are seeing. There is no reason to make him panic about what your friends and family actually think about him. Your closest friends and family are just looking out for you. And In time, they will all see how wondering your boyfriend is and see him just like you do.
2 That You Have Been Intimate With Someone That’s Better Than Him
Guys rarely want to hear that you have been intimate with someone yet they don't want you to be a virgin. But make sure that you, never talk about if someone was better in bed than him. If your boyfriend ever asks you this dreaded question, which he most likely will since guys can be like that, even if he was the worst guy you have been with, you never tell him that. Instead, just practice more with him and teach him some new moves.
1 That You’re Not Over Your Ex
Being in a relationship is wonderful, but sometimes you might end up jumping into a new one a little too soon from the last. And no, you're not in a rebound relationship because of how much you care for your boyfriend, but there is just that lingering thought of your ex. Any leftover thoughts about your ex should not be shared with your boyfriend. It's best to keep your thoughts about your past in the past and look forward to your future with your new boyfriend.