How To Tell If He Is Over You (Without Telling You), According To His Sign

There can sometimes be fine line between wanting some space and flat out losing interest altogether.

The sad fact about dating in 2017 (soon to be 2018) is that rather than flat out breaking up with the person that we have been dating, we get ghosted or breadcrumbed. Those of us who have high-functioning intuition know when the guy we are seeing is gradually (or abruptly) starting to lose interest. Either he doesn't text or try to hang out as much as he used to or he just seems distant whenever you spend time together. Some guys are over you long before the relationship is even over and that is a bitter pill to swallow because it is like watching a train wreck in slow motion.

How you can tell if a guy is over you is to look for signs of withdrawal and distance. There can sometimes be fine line between wanting some space and flat out losing interest altogether. When a guy is over you, he will stop investing, time and effort that is normally reserved just for you. He may even start to sabotage the relationship just so that you will dump him rather than him having the gonads to break it off with you.

Different signs of the zodiac will display different signs of disinterest when they are starting to check out of a relationship. Read on to find out what happens when your guy is starting to display obvious telltale signs that he is over you. When you realize that he is over you, then you should beat him to the punch and break it off.

16 Earth Signs - They Might Stray Into Someone Else's Arms


Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) are the sensual folk of the zodiac and they use their physical bodies to let those that they lust after know that they are into. When you first get into it with one of these signs, they will use their body language more so than their verbal skills to give you signals that they are interested. They are very different from fire signs because they might not be most robust, but they are the most stable. Once you are in a relationship with them, it will feel like the real thing and that it will last for the long term. It is not wise to jump to such assumptions when it is too early in the game. Just as quickly as they lured you in with their adorable yet indirect flirtation, they can use it just as easily on someone else that they fancy. When they are over you or checked out of the relationship, they are the most likely to move onto another person before actually breaking up with you (if they even do that even).

15 Taurus - He Will Stop Putting Forth Effort Altogether


If a Taurus is interested in you, they will pursue you relentlessly until they get what they want. To have the love of a Taurus is like being wrapped in a warm blanket. They will go out of their way for you, and make it all about their partner because that is just how they roll. When a Taurus is over you, they will simply just no longer go out of their way to make the effort like they used to at the beginning of the relationship. When you feel that all of the sudden that the security that was once there is falling apart, that is when you know that they are over you. Taurus men can be lazy and stubborn so that side of them will rear its ugly head the second that they start to lose interest.

14 Virgo - He Will Stop Worrying About You


Virgo men are just as finicky as they are perfectionists and it will be overwhelming how much they are willing to give open constructive criticism at the beginning of the relationship. At first you might think, "wow, this guy is a total A-hole, he should be complimenting me and trying to impress me rather than judge me." Fear not if he does this. Virgos see their relationships as projects and something that they can always build and improve upon. You need to start worrying if he stops worrying about the tiny, even mundane little details that don't really seem to matter to you. If he stops caring about the way you put the dishes away or how your outfit doesn't coordinate like he did before, then he might have given up (ie, he is over you).

13 Capricorn - You Will No Longer Be A Priority To Him


Out of all the signs in the zodiac, Capricorn men have their sh** together in every sense of the word. They are always thinking two steps ahead of everyone else and have lofty goals that other people seem to shy away from. If he meets someone that he genuinely cares about, a Capricorn man will include you in his schedule no matter how busy it is. Normally, he likes to have his ducks in a row at all times and will include someone he sees as his future wife as an important part of his life. He will be over you in a heartbeat the second that he starts seeing you as distraction or someone that will not push him forward in his pursuit of ambitions. He will be cut and dry. You will probably feel that he is cold and doesn't care. Well, that is because he doesn't.

12 Air Signs - They Will Phase You Out (AKA Ghost You)


The element of Air (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) is the most detached because if you think about air, it can float around. Air comes and goes as it pleases and finds a seamless way to transition from one situation or person to another without much need to adjust. So that means air signs will likely live their life as if you were never in it. If you are dating an air sign and they are over you, they will just use the phase out technique (AKA ghosting) to let you know that they just aren't feeling it anymore. If you are lucky, they will drop very obvious hints like "I just don't have time for a relationship" or "I'm kind of broke, I can't afford to take you out to dinner." In any case, their social life will be hopping and you just won't be a part of it.

11 Gemini - His Social Life Will Become More Active


The one thing you need to know about Geminis is that they get bored easily. You can tell when a Gemini is over you when they are no longer asking you questions or inquiring about your life. These naturally curious creatures will take that probing curiosity elsewhere. They are social creatures with a lively network of acquaintances and they will simply start spending more time in their little communities and leave you out of the picture. They might take a long time to make the decision to break up but once they have made up their mind, then that is it. You will catch some snide remarks here and there to intentionally push you away. Their generally anxious nature will make them too nervous to break up with you but they just don't want to say the words. If they lack the ability to relax around you, this is the biggest red flag that they are over you.

10 Libra - He Will Flake Out On Plans


This is a sign that when they are over you, it is easy to be oblivious to it. Libras are the hardest to read to be able to tell whether they want to break up or not. When a Libra is into you, they will want to impress you and they will want to present a polished appearance in front of the person that they have a crush on. They will also want to spend as much time as possible around you because they love the idea of being in love. They are also the least confrontational out of all the zodiac (after all, they are in opposition of the Aries) so they won't have the heart to tell you that it's over when they just aren't really feeling it anymore. They are the most likely to phase you out and will look for excuses not to hang out anymore. They will still be cordial if they ever run into you, but rest assured that they will be over you.

9 Aquarius - He Will Chose His Friends Over You


The biggest thing that you have to remember about an Aquarius is that they are an individual who beats to their own drum. They are rebels and like to go against the grain, even to the point of being disagreeable with those around them. Paradoxically, they have a following around them almost as if they were a cult leader. In order to be in a relationship with an Aquarius, you need to be in with their group of weirdos. If you don't find that you fit in very well, then your shelf life will be short. They will make you feel like you belong as if you never belonged before. However, if you do something to upset their circle, you will find yourself excluded and they will be over you as if you never existed. Careful not to end on bitter terms because they can drive your reputation into the ground.

8 Water Signs - They Will Become Emotionally Unavailable


Though most water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) will never admit it, they are as sensitive and emotional as they come. When they are into you, it will be flattering because they will become attached as if you were the greatest thing since sliced bread. They will show you their vulnerable side if they feel comfortable enough to open up to you. However, they are introverted and hard to read at times. When they are over you, you will know it intuitively because you will just get that vibe that they are just not feeling it like they used to. They will no longer let you into their secret little worlds and want to spend any alone time with you. This will sting insidiously because it will fade away gradually (though some at quicker paces than others). You can also tell that they are over you when they become less emotionally receptive to your needs or unsympathetic.

7 Cancer - He Will Try To Let You Down Easy


Cancers are the most sympathetic of the zodiac who love to put others before themselves. They are warm, cuddly and will make you feel like they will never leave you. Until they do. That warmhearted nature will feel as cold as ice once they decide that they are over you and start to check out of the relationship. They will try and make the transition for you as easy as possible by setting you up with new hobbies or new friends to hang out with in lieu of their company. They are the ones that are most likely to use the classic phrase, "it's not you, it's me." Even if the reason is clearly you, they will not let you know what you did wrong because the last thing that they would ever want to do is hurt your feelings.

6 Scorpio - All His Passionate Devotion Will Wane


Scorpios are by far the most passionate out of all the water signs. Unlike the other two, they have an edge to them that hints around at an intensity that is buried below the surface. When you stare into that vortex of a gaze of theirs, you will be smitten just as much as they are by you. You need to be able to keep up with that stamina otherwise, they will think that you can't measure up to their level of energy. A Scorpio will be over you if they realize that you don't have what it takes to keep up with their sensual side. They crave that deep connection on a psychological level and if you can't meet them there, then consider yourself as good as single. Don't worry yourself too much if they are over you, it was a difficult standard to meet anyways.

5 Pisces - He Uses The Wishy-Washy Approach


Oh God, last but not least we have the Pisces. Now these dudes are straight up pieces of work when it comes to how they choose to exit relationships. These guys are so flip-floppity about their emotions that it will send you for an emotional rollercoaster trying to figure out what their intentions are. One minute they will be telling you they love you and then the next they might say, "I'm not ready for a relationship." To know for sure when a Pisces guy is over you will be when you haven't heard from him in a long time and it will feel like it's over but you just kind of missed the memo. You might see that he is already spending time with another girl via Facebook without any forewarning. Who knows? These fish might swim their way back into your life when they decide later on that maybe they are not over you after all.

4 Fire Signs - They Will Be More Obvious About It


Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) have a straightforward, direct way of communicating. They are known to be insensitive but hey, at least they won't give you any BS. These types are the easiest to tell if they have moved on and have no interest in pursuing the relationship any further. The pain will be sharp but it will be like pulling off a Band-Aid for them: quick and easy. The ending of the relationship will be so abrupt that you probably won't even see it coming and you might feel blindsided. Fire signs are passionate people and they can fall out of love just as easily as they fell in love in the first place. To have the love a fire sign and then lose it will be particularly devastating because they will literally heat up your world. Once that is all gone, everything will feel just, well...cold. You will know when they are over you when their warmhearted nature completely dissipates.

3 Aries - He Will Flat Out Tell You


The Aries is one of the most reckless and insensitive signs of the zodiac which also makes them straightforward. However, they are quick to fall in love and will put you on a pedestal in the beginning of the relationship. Once they get excited about a new girlfriend, they will be quick to tell their friends and family about it and shout it from the highest mountain. If that praise and excitement ever comes to a halt for an extended period of time (for no warranted reason) then it might be a sign that they are trying to move on. An Aries will be the type to end the relationship without any warning and in as few words as possible.

Since they are not in touch with their own emotions, they have a hard time articulating them. Think of their inter workings as if they were slightly primitive, almost like a caveman. You will just hear "this isn't working out" and they won't really explain why.

2 Leo - He Won't Want To Be Seen Out In Public With You


Leos are gregarious and vivacious men and they are the most exciting to date when they fall for you. When they are dating you, they will want to show you off to their friends and family. In return, they will want the same amount of attention and admiration from you. If the relationship is starting to feel to "meh" for them, then they will go out to bars and social events and want to appear as single as possible. If you are not stroking their ego, then they will look elsewhere or having someone else lined up. If they feel insulted or got into a big fight with them out in public, then consider this game over. Their worst fear is to be humiliated out in public. They will get over you fast if you do anything to damage their reputation.

1 Sagittarius - He Will Stop Inviting You To Important Events


The Sagittarius is the most blunt signs in the entire zodiac (even more so than the Aries), so they will be gone just as fast as they found their way into their life. They love to travel as much as possible so if they are in a relationship, they will consider their significant other their travel buddy. They are looking for the ride or die type so you are either going with them or you aren't. Plain and simple. You can tell when they are over you when they plan a trip behind your back and don't tell you about it. Worse yet, if they have a sudden romantic getaway with another girl, then obviously they are over you. The predecessor to traveling without you will be when they stop inviting you to important events in their life, like their brother's wedding or their little sister's graduation party.

Source: Grace Astrology

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