Part-poet, part-writer, and full-blooded human megaphone of the oppressed, Tammy focuses on covering heavy topics. To keep herself sane, she also writes about pop culture, life, and anything gay. She gets by with the smell of typewriter and sound of tattoo machines.
At some point, most of us (if not all) have once wished we can somehow magically know if the one we’re attracted to is already falling for us. I mean, isn’t it great to figure out through the slightes...
Whether you and your man just took things to the next level or you’ve been together for quite some time now, there will always be expectations – secret and non-secret ones. Yes people, we all know you...
One of the most common misconceptions about being a pessimist is that you’re the bad guy. Well, that’s not really how it works. See, being an optimist, realist, or pessimist has its pros and cons, and...
See, that’s the thing about us, human beings – we love to make things complicated as heck, like life, in general, isn’t complicated enough already. For some unknown reasons, we make everything seem li...
If you’ve been in the dating game for quite some time now, you would know the grave importance of standards. Too low and you will end up with an immature jerk; too high and you will end up single. But...
With the kind of world we have today, it’s impossible to hide something, anything… and that includes that one dumb thing you have cried about. Maybe you even still cry about it to date. Okay, so we’re...
For the record, that thing where only women reject men? That’s a fairytale. Okay, a bitter version of a fairytale. In real life, men also reject us even before we get to tell them how we feel. Sometim...
With all the dating apps waiting for you to download them, there’s no question why a lot of us women tend to be confused about relationships. Apparently, it’s awkward to ask “so hey, are we going to c...
For some of us, being civil and just kind to one another is the best option on the table. We all try our best to be kind and understanding and forgiving, even to those who hurt us, like our exes. But ...
Given that this life is always unpredictable, it’s quite vital for us to know how to pause for a bit, take a step or two back, and examine the situation. Don’t be afraid to step back and ask yourself ...
Oh love… sometimes, no matter how much experience we got, we still have no idea how it works. This is the exact reason why we all end up in pain. But there’s nothing wrong with that. Failed relationsh...
One of the best things about zodiac signs is that they give us clues about other people’s little secrets. We’re not trying to snoop or gossip or anything but don’t you think it’s a cool idea that you ...
Social media can either make you or break you. Yes people, that’s basically how it works. If you think it’s all about the good things, if you think it’s all about cute cat videos and baby panda videos...
Feeling trapped in a relationship, even a toxic one, is something we rarely entertain. Because why should we? Who in the world would want to spend the night thinking “hey, am I trapped in this unhealt...
The line between real love and emotional dependence is ridiculously thin. But because love is a complex thing (and we all know that already… right?) we can’t really expect this to be an easy issue to ...
It is one thing to text someone while you’re drunk (a.k.a. drunk texting) and it’s also another thing to text your ex with the most ridiculous messages ever imagined. Don’t get us wrong, we have nothi...
If you’re a fan of reading your everyday horoscope, chances are, you’re reading it to know the good thing about today and the next coming days. Most of us read horoscopes so we can stay updated on the...
Being kind and loving is all good, until people start taking advantage of it. If you’re a people-pleaser, you know exactly how that feels. But if you’re a people-pleaser who doesn’t know what it’s all...
If there’s one thing most young people today have in common, it's that they're way too emotional. Seriously, a really great show just ended and everybody’s depressed. A Kardashian just got pregnant an...
Because the man code is oftentimes too complex to decode, there’s no question why women find themselves confused and stuck in relationships they should’ve left a long time ago. This can be because the...