For many girls, the very idea of getting the guy interested sounds intimidating. They become confused over what to say, how to behave, and what things it's best to keep to oneself. But, in fact, it's not that difficult to do it. There is no magic formula a girl should know how to use to attract a guy. All she needs is to act naturally and show him genuine interest (without pushing too hard, of course). Using the simple tips, conversation starters, ideas, and topics listed below, she can easily make a guy interested, attracted, and excited about seeing her again. Some of them might sound cliche, while others can seem to be a bit over the top, but all of them will actually work very well!
20 "You Like Sushi? I Heard A New Bar Has Opened Recently"
Many girls are wondering what they should do to get the guy to ask them out. In fact, there's at least one bulletproof way to do it. Find a common interest and give a hint. For example, if he said that he likes sushi, you can tell him that a new restaurant has recently been opened nearby. Or, if you like one and the same soccer team and you know that they're playing soon, tell it and expect him to invite you to go see the game together.
19 "Hey, Do You Want To Go Out Tonight?"
If you don't want to drop hints and really like this guy, arm yourself with some courage and ask him out by yourself. Some guys like it when the girl makes the first move and appreciate the boldness. So you can try to risk it and just ask him if he wants to get a cup of coffee or something.
18 "Nobody Makes Me Feel Like You Do"
A guy will like it if his girl tells him that she thinks he's special. The phrase like "Nobody makes me feel like you do" is a good example. It might sound sensual, but it doesn't necessarily need to have this nature. You can mean that nobody hugs you as he does, or nobody makes you laugh as much as he does.
17 "Walk In Front Of Me So I Can See You From The Back"
This one is nice if you want to get a little bit playful. After all, guys constantly look at girls from the back to see all these beautiful curves. But don't girls also like a nice set of buttocks? Of course, we do, so there's nothing wrong with asking your guy to walk in front of you just to let you see his bum.
16 "Are You As Tired Of Routine As I Am?"
Although there's nothing wrong with habits and routines, sometimes we all get tired of them. Besides, being spontaneous with your man is a good way to show him what you're capable of. So try doing some things differently together every now and then, like going away for a weekend, making an unplanned date, or going to see a movie in the middle of the day on Wednesday.
15 "I Love That Movie, Too!"
It's very important for a good relationship to find some common ground. Common interests, likes, and dislikes will make you closer and will keep your communication interesting for both of you. So if you both love or hate something, like a kind of sport, a movie, or a food item, talk about it to learn even more about each other and strengthen your bond.
14 Show What Makes You Special
You already know that you should make him feel special, but keep in mind that you also need to show him that you are special. To do it, open up a little bit and share the things you really care about or something that makes you different from others. Whether it's about how much you love your cat, how you knit all your sweaters by yourself, or how you had a crazy adventure in Africa, just share your feelings.
13 "What Would You Do, If We Were Alone Right Now?"
Asking this question can make him think about a lot of different things. Probably, most of them will be sensual, which is great because it's an indispensable part of any relationship. But he also might be thinking about how he'd love both of you to play your favorite video game together or how much he'd like to tell you a secret he's hiding from everyone else.
12 "I Love The Way You Look Today"
Everyone knows that girls like it when a guy tells them that he likes how they look. But guys are also human beings and they also like to know that they're attractive. Well, maybe they don't like it as much as we do, but they still appreciate it. So if you just like how he looks, or like something particular in his look, tell him about it.
11 Ask Him About Positive Things
As we've discussed before, you can bond over the things that both of you hate. But it's still best to focus on good things and positive emotions. So whenever you can, maintain a positive vibe in your conversation. For example, instead of complaining about the bad traffic, talk about something funny and uplifting, like a good book you read or a new music video you liked.
10 "Do You Want Me To Cook Dinner For You?"
Cooking for your man is a great way to impress him, so as soon as you feel that you got close enough for him to visit you for dinner, offer to cook for him. It'll interest the guy not only because he likes to eat tasty homemade food, but also because he'll appreciate the effort you take to prepare a nice meal. It doesn't have to be a 3-course restaurant-like dinner – just cook something you like to eat.
9 "What Would You Like Me To Wear Tonight?"
It's a good question to ask on the eve of a big date. First of all, it'll make his imagination run wild because he'll be thinking about how this or that dress or jeans will bring out your features. And secondly, he'll probably look forward to this date even more because he'll want to see you as soon as possible in that dress.
8 "You're So Funny!"
Guys like to make girls laugh. And they also like to hear their girl's laugh and see her smile. Of course, it doesn't mean that you have to laugh at everything he's saying, even if you don't like his jokes. If your relationship becomes long-term, the truth will come out sooner or later and he won't like it that you lied to him. So tell him that he's funny only if you really think so.
7 And Then Say Something Funny, Too
It's not enough to just tell him that his joke is funny. Make him laugh in return, too. Show him your sharp and funny side. The sooner both of you reveal your sense of humor, the better because in a good and stable relationship this trait should better be common and you should be able to laugh at similar things.
6 "Let's Do Something New Together"
It's always fun to do new things, but doing them together with your significant other (or the person who, you think, is destined to become one for you) is even better. So try to incorporate it into your date life. Visit the places neither of you've visited before, find a new hobby you can do together, like skiing or dancing, or just do something you've never done before but always wanted to.
5 Never Say Just "No"
Become a Yesman for your guy but in a good sense of this word. See, you don't have to just agree with everything he says, but it's also bad to just say "No." Let me illustrate it in an example. Let's say he asks you if you've seen a recent movie you haven't watched. Instead of just saying "No" and cutting off the conversation just like that, say, "No, but I heard it was good" or "No, but I'd like to."
4 "I Love Your Friends!"
Friends are an important part of every person's life and everyone wants their friends and their partner to get along. Your guy is no exception. Besides, being nice with his friends can win you quite a few extra points and getting to know them will help you better understand your guy. So it's a win-win situation!
3 "I Can't Stop Thinking About Last Night"
Do you think that your date was a blast? Don't hesitate to tell him about it. Share your emotions and tell him what exactly you liked about spending time with him. It will surely make him want to have another date with you as soon as possible and see what else he can think of for you to like it so much again. Challenge accepted!
2 "Let Me Tell You What I've Been Thinking About All Day"
Whether you want to tell him about some naughty stuff you've been thinking about, or just something funny, he'll probably appreciate it if you want to share your thoughts with him. Just don't push him too much and don't make him listen to all the silly stuff you've been reflecting on all day. Share the thoughts that he'll find especially interesting.
1 "Could You Help Me With *Blank*?"
Most guys like to feel needed, so if you start a conversation by asking him to help you, it can become the beginning of a good romantic relationship. Whether you're struggling with a heavy bag or confused by how you should get around your college campus, just ask him to give you a hand. Or, if he offers to help, just let him do it. And, of course, don't forget to smile and thank him (and, maybe, ask him if he wants a cup of coffee as a "thank-you").
Sources: Wiki How, Make Him Yours, Hack Spirit, Luvze