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20 Things All Men Want Their Girlfriends To Stop Doing

When you get into a relationship, you start noticing your boyfriend's habits, both good and bad and massive and small. The fact that he always forgets to turn the dishwasher on or he keeps buying more sparkling water when there's a ton in the fridge? Those are two pretty small things and not a big deal at all. But there are other aspects of his behavior that are a lot more important, like how he feels about committing to you.

Just like you want your BF to be nice and have positive habits, he wants the same for you. The truth is that men have a list of relationship grievances that they would really prefer not to see on a regular basis.

Here are 20 things that all men want their girlfriends to stop doing.

20 Texting Your Friends While Hanging With Him

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When you're hanging out with your boyfriend, he really doesn't want you to be on your phone... and he really, really doesn't want you texting your friends. This is one of those things that literally everyone seems to do since it doesn't seem rude.

But it is pretty rude, right? It's no wonder that guys aren't big on this.

19 Complaining All The Time

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Does anyone like a complainer? No, definitely not, but guys especially don't enjoy having girlfriends who complain all the time.

You could feel that you have totally legit reasons to be negative, like that one friend who never shows up for dinner plans on time. But to your BF, this is frustrating, and he doesn't want to hear such negativity.

18 Taking Two Hours To Put On Makeup And Do Your Hair

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Of course, it's fun to put on makeup and attempt a new hairstyle (or the same hairstyle and lipstick that you always go for). Is it fun for your boyfriend to have to wait two hours for this beauty magic to happen?

Not so much... which is why this is something else that all men want their girlfriends to stop doing.

17 Bugging Him To Propose Already

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It can feel frustrating to watch the months and years tick by and realize that you still don't have an engagement ring on your finger. However, bugging a guy to propose isn't going to work.

Men also want their girlfriends to stop asking when they're going to pop the question and generally bringing this up in an awkward way.

16 Two Words: Couple Selfies

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To you, couple selfies are the most adorable thing that you could post. You want to see the positive comments and show that you have such a cute boyfriend.

To your boyfriend, these are annoying. And not something that he wants to be a part of. All men want their girlfriends to stop taking and posting couple photos. They would really love for these selfies to disappear.

15 Two More Words: 'It's Fine'

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All men definitely want their girlfriends to stop saying "I'm fine." This is a cliche statement that doesn't really work.

While it's tempting to say this in the middle of an argument, it's not going to deliver the results that you want. Instead of convincing your BF that everything's cool, he's just going to be mad that you're not being honest with him.

14 Spilling Secrets (And Anything Else) To Your BFFs

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It's awesome to have a close group of friends, and of course, your BFFs are the people who you want to share so many things with. The problem is that while you have no problem spilling your boyfriend's secrets (and anything else about your relationship), he's not that comfy with this. All men want their girlfriends to keep these things to themselves.

13 Calling Him Bae Or Other Annoying Slang

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Relationship slang like "bae" has gotten super popular over the past few years, so much so that you honestly think nothing of using these terms.

While you love them and think that they're adorable, your boyfriend isn't quite on the same page. When it comes to what men would love for their girlfriends to stop doing, using slang is on the list as well.

12 Social Media Oversharing

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Your social media followers don't really need to know every detail of the relationship that you're in. And yet some people honestly don't even think twice about oversharing on these platforms.

It's safe to say that guys aren't into these kinds of posts and really wish that their girlfriends would refrain from doing this.

11 Inviting Him Out With Your Friends

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In super rare cases, a guy will be happy to go out with his girlfriend and her group of friends. It's much more likely that he doesn't want to do this at all.

It's just like how you don't want to head out with him and his friends. You just don't get along or you don't have enough in common, and everyone feels awkward or left out.

10 Saying His Mom Doesn't Like You

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Men don't want their girlfriends to say that their mom dislikes them. It might be the truth. She could be so rude to you. But you should honestly never bring this up.

It's important to have a good relationship with his family if you're going to be with him forever, and yet you can't really convince him that his mom isn't the nicest person unless he tells you that himself.

9 Getting Angry That He's Not A Mind Reader

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All men would love for their girlfriends to stop expecting them to be mind readers. This happens a lot during fights or when you want him to understand what he did to make you so upset.

Many couples would love being able to read each other's minds. It would definitely make things a lot easier. Unfortunately, that's just not a thing. Sure, you don't want to spell things out for him, but in this case, you totally should.

8 Buying Clothes For Him

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You could find the nicest hoodie ever, buy it, bring it home, and your boyfriend could still shake his head and say that you shouldn't have gotten it for him.

A lot of guys don't want their girlfriends to buy clothing for them since it makes them feel like they're incapable of doing that themselves. No guy wants their girlfriend to be their personal shopper.

7 Being In A Bad Mood For No Reason

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It's true that sometimes, you're just not in a good mood. You can't shake it, you can't explain it... but you can stop moping around the house and annoying your BF.

The truth is that when you spend all day long being super unhappy, it changes the energy around you and it doesn't make your boyfriend very happy, either. He would love for you to stop being in a bad mood for no reason at all. It just confuses him.

6 Nagging Him And Wishing You Could Change Him

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Men don't want to be changed by the women who they are dating. What's something that they dislike even more? When their girlfriends nag them to change.

Sure, it could be true that he should dress better or stop using his phone so much. But he doesn't want to hear these things from the person who loves him. It's just all kinds of awkward and makes him feel bad.

5 Saying That You're Bored

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Sure, everyone gets bored. But everyone also finds it totally annoying when someone tells them that they're bored.

Guys want their girlfriends to stop saying that they're bored, and if you're in the habit of this, it would definitely be good to stop (and find something interesting to do instead of repeating this over and over again).

4 Wanting Him To Stop Seeing Certain Friends

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You have a right to dislike some of your boyfriend's friends. Do you have a right to tell him to stop hanging out with them? Not really.

You wouldn't love if he told you the same thing about your own social circle, so it's probably best to steer clear of this type of conversation. Just don't hang out with them and everything should be fine.

3 Texting Him Too Much When He's At The Office

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There's a time and place for texting. It can be great to text your boyfriend so you can keep in contact with each other during the day (and maybe say some super cute things to each other, too).

But guys don't enjoy their girlfriends texting them when they're busy at the office and have a ton of deadlines and tasks on their plate.

2 The Silent Treatment

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If men want their girlfriends to stop saying "I'm fine" then they definitely want to stop getting the silent treatment.

What seems like a smart and effective thing to do during an argument is actually super immature and even kind of silly. It doesn't accomplish anything. Guys would be happy if their girlfriends would stop doing this, that's for sure.

1 Moving Too Fast

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Men also want their girlfriends to stop moving too fast. It's hard not to want to do this when you like someone so much and if you're a hopeless romantic.

But guys know that sometimes, moving fast can mean not seeing what's actually going on or not getting to know each other enough. If girlfriends could stop doing these 20 things, relationships would be a lot smoother (but, of course, you could say that there are things that boyfriends do that aren't the best).

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