Believe it or not, there are guys who are trying to "pregnant trap" their women as we speak. But just how does one "pregnant trap" a woman? The answer is pretty simple. Pregnant trapping is when a guy tries to get a girl pregnant so he can trap them in a relationship with them. The logic is that if a girl is pregnant, she's more likely to stay in a relationship with the guy that got her pregnant, even if she doesn't really like that guy too much. Some guys are successful in this, and end up spending the rest of their lives with a woman they trapped in this manner. Some guys even lie to their women about things like vasectomies, birth control methods, and other things that make a women think they won't get pregnant.
But most of the women in these situations found out the hard way just how crafty and malicious guys can be. Now most of them are trapped in lives they never wanted to live, and there's not much they can do about it. The only thing they can do is send a warning out to all those other women who might find themselves in the same situation. They've taken to whisper to get their message across, and their confessions are stunning...
15 He Cheated But She's Pregnant... He's Got Her Trapped
Cheating is never a fun thing to go through, and it usually ends the relationship right then and there. It's extremely hard to forgive someone after they've cheated on you behind your back, and some would say that you should never forgive that person, no matter how much you love them. Because there's no clearer way than cheating to tell someone that you don't love them, and you never did. Regardless, some people manage to work things out after a cheating incident.
But what most people can never imagine is wanting to leave a cheater but not being able to. That's exactly what this girl went through when her man cheated on her, and she reveals it all on whisper. Why couldn't she leave her man? He got her pregnant, and trapped her. Then she had no choice but to keep living with this man that had cheated on her.
14 He Baby Trapped Her Before He Went Away To Work
In today's world, both men and women are very serious about their careers. Gone are the days where just one partner needs to work to support the other. The majority of modern couples must both work in order to support themselves - and that's not even bringing children into the equation. And for many couples, this is exactly how they want it to be. Most people enjoy pursuing their own careers and involving themselves in interesting and fulfilling lives.
But in this woman's case, it was her husband that was determined to be the one who took his career seriously. And he was so serious about his career that he actually pregnant trapped his girlfriend to make sure she didn't stray from him while he traveled far away from her for work... In the end, he basically made sure that she would play the role of the stay at home wife, without ever giving her a choice.
13 They Both Got Trapped With Each Other
When you're young, people are constantly telling you not to jump into a relationship too fast. There are plenty of people out there who feel nothing but regret for jumping into a relationship way too fast, without thinking it through. It's true that you really need to be sure about someone if you're considering spending the rest of your life with them. Even then, there's an element of a 'leap of faith,' as you're never quite sure what's going to happen in the future.
But what happens if you don't even make the decision to settle down with someone? What if that decision is made for you? This girl went on whisper and admitted that it happened to her - she and her boyfriend got pregnant unexpectedly and neither of them saw it coming. In the end, they both feel trapped with each other, and they wouldn't even be with each other if it weren't for the child.
12 She Wanted To Leave... Then She Found Out She Was Pregnant
Raising a family is a major goal in life for both men and women. Some people like to focus more on their careers or hobbies, but others feel a deep sense of fulfillment from raising not one but several children, and feel that it is their purpose in life. There is no doubt that the majority of people feel this way, since the population of the Earth is steadily increasing! And no matter the state of the relationship, the vast majority of parents love their children dearly, even if they don't necessarily love each other.
This was surely the case with one girl who made a confession on whisper. She admitted that she was actually in the middle of making up her mind to leave her man when she found out she was pregnant. All of a sudden, her life got turned upside down, and she ended up getting trapped with a guy she originally wanted to leave...
11 He's Cheating On Her But She Found Out She's Pregnant...
Getting cheated on is something that many people worry about constantly, and for good reason. It's pretty much the biggest slap in the fact that you can suffer in a relationship. But some people tend to get way too paranoid about it, worrying needlessly and letting their relationship suffer as a result. But on the other hand, one's intuition is often right about these things. If you think your partner is cheating on you, it could very well be true.
And if you're wondering about these things, you're also probably thinking about ending the relationship. One woman suspected her boyfriend of cheating - but before she could make her next move, she found out she was pregnant. She was trapped, and had to stay with him for the baby.
10 If She Leaves He Gets Full Custody - So She's Forced To Stay
Most couples wait a while before having children. In many ways, it's the most serious step forward a couple can take. Marriage might be seen as a milestone and a major commitment, but it isn't until a baby is born that the bonds and strength of the relationship are truly tested. There is simply more at stake. If the relationship fails, the child will go through something very bad indeed. This is why it's so important to really make sure that the relationship will work before you have children.
But after just four months, is that really enough time to make such a huge decision? In this case, a girl on whisper admitted that she never had any say in the matter. Her boyfriend pregnant trapped her after barely getting to know her, and now she's feeling trapped and extremely afraid about what to do next. She can't leave him, because then he will get custody.
9 He Almost Trapped Her
We've all been with people that were just not right for us. When these relationships end, it can be painful and we often fight to stay with these people. It's only much later that we realize how bad our futures would have been if we had stayed with these individuals. It can be quite a haunting experience to imagine our lives trapped with someone who would have made our lives miserable. Sometimes it takes time to fully realize that things worked out the way they should have.
In this case, a woman admits on whisper that she very nearly found herself in a situation she would have hated. In her own words, hindsight vision is always 20/20, and looking back, she's pretty sure her boyfriend was trying to pregnant trap her. She got lucky, but some of the other women in this article weren't so fortunate...
8 She Didn't Want To Be A Single Mother...
When a woman is pregnant, it is expected that the people around her do everything in their power to make her feel comfortable and make her life easier. That's why people are expected to give up their seats on the bus to expecting mothers, for example. But pregnant women are definitely not supposed to be cheated on or disrespected by their men. Such a blow would make their lives incredibly miserable, and that's definitely not how most women imagine their pregnancies going.
But one women got pregnant trapped in the worst possible way, and yes, this story involved her getting cheated on... While pregnant. Her man cheated on her and she could only stay with him, given the fact that she was carrying his child and wanted him to have a father...
7 He Lied About His Vasectomy
Countless men have made the choice to get a vasectomy, and for them, it just makes sense. A vasectomy is simple surgical procedure that prevents a man from impregnating a woman, and men choose this path so that they can limit the number of offspring they produce. It is considered a practical choice by many, because with more and more children comes increasing financial responsibilities. In addition, these men know how hard it is to raise a child, and they don't want to subject themselves to this, even in the minute chance of an accident.
But what happens if your boyfriend lies to you about his vasectomy? That's exactly what this woman experienced, and she confessed her story on whisper. Not only did he lie, but he got her pregnant and then just left her. Now she's expecting a baby, and she feels like she was completely trapped into a life that she never asked for.
6 He Has A Girlfriend On The Side And Keeps Getting Her Pregnant
Many of us have experienced lingering feeling for our exes. Sometimes, you form such a strong bond with someone that no amount of time apart can truly kill the relationship and your feelings for each other. Many women admit to an "on and off" relationship with their exes, where they slip back into a relationship with men they've broken up with, only to end it again, and the cycle continues almost endlessly.
But what happens when a child is involved? This certainly complicates things. One woman on whisper admits that she got impregnated not once but twice by her ex. He lied about getting a vasectomy, and is now living with another girlfriend. She's feeling trapped, and she can't believe she got herself into this situation...
5 He Left Her After Getting Her Pregnant Twice
You never know when someone truly loves you. It's a huge sin to tell someone you love them without really meaning it, but the truth is that this happens all the time. However, there are worse things you can do to someone than just lying about being in love with them. Like getting a girl pregnant twice while lying about being in love with them, then ditching them when the going gets tough just so you can enjoy the single life.
Yep, that actually happened, and it's obvious that this girl on whisper experienced one of the worst cases of pregnant trapping ever witnessed by anyone. You can understand why she wants to confess on whisper - it's the kind of thing that you really need to get off your chest. She admits she's depressed, and it's doubtful that this will change anytime soon.
4 He Wanted Her To Get Rid Of It
While guys are supposed to be supportive and respectful of women's bodies when they get pregnant, this just isn't always the case. Men have a knack for telling women what to do with their pregnancies, even though they clearly have no right. It's their body, and it's their decision. Although women might not want to completely obey their men's decisions regarding their pregnancies, most of them do take their opinions into consideration, especially if they're the father.
But it's hard to listen to a guy who has lied to you about their vasectomy, and is actually threatening to leave you unless you get an abortion. That's exactly what this girl went through, and now she's confessing her story on whisper. It seems like this guy doesn't care about her at all...
3 Pregnant And Realizing She Doesn't Want To Be With Him
Things really get put into perspective once you get pregnant. All of a sudden, it dawns on you that this is real, and the relationship you're in is going to be one that impacts the rest of your life. You can't shy away from responsibilities anymore. That's because it's not only your life that is impacted by your decisions, but your child too. While this new level of responsibility can seem interesting and fulfilling for some women, others find it constraining, especially if it wasn't their choice to get pregnant in the first place.
This was the case of one girl who went on whisper to confess her story. She was six weeks pregnant when it hit her all of a sudden: she didn't want to be with this guy for the rest of her life. But now she's feeling trapped because she's realizing she might not have much of a choice. The baby is coming and she wants him to have a father...
2 He's Trying To Pregnant Trap Her... But She's Catching On
Some girls love guys who want the relationship to move fast. They're not interested in casual, slow-moving relationships, and want to make sure early on that the guy is committed and in it for the long run. But for some women, this can be a total turn-off. The feeling of a guy wanting to move too fast can raise some serious alarm bells, and it can actually cause women to run the hell away. Women value their time as independent, free people, and a guy who might be trying to pregnant trap her is a serious threat to her lifestyle.
That's exactly what one girl suspected when she went on whisper and confessed. She believes that a guy is trying to pregnant trap her so she'll be forced to stay with him forever. She already has her suspicions, and she might just be right. Who knows what she's going to do next. What would you do?
1 He Poked Holes In The Condom
One of the biggest phobias for women is a guy poking holes in the condom. This is seriously dangerous behavior, for so many reasons. First of all, there's the risk of spreading STIs. Then there's the risk of getting a girl pregnant who doesn't even want it. This is some seriously psychopathic behavior, and the worst part is there's no way to tell if a guy does it. That's why most women want to see the condom their selves and make sure that it's not damaged in any way.
Our last whisper confession actually comes from the male point of view, and what he reveals is despicable. Not only does he poke holes in his condoms, but he's trying to get a girl pregnant without her even agreeing to it. And then he has the nerve to complain about her aborting the baby. Well what did you expect? She didn't even want to get pregnant in the first place!