Our subconscious controls us a lot more than we realize, and definitely more than we like to admit. It will betray us sometimes, letting other people be aware of the things we definitely don't want them to know. Of course some people are more susceptible to subconscious behaviours than others, but it affects us all. You may as well use this knowledge about subconscious behaviour to your advantage and learn how to really interpret little human behaviors. These behaviors carry a lot of meaning that you never would have noticed below. People most often are betrayed by their thoughts when they are around someone they like, we can't help it but we get flustered and our attraction gets the best of us. So the next time you have a crush on a guy and you're wondering how he really feels about you, don't worry. It's really not that hard to figure out.
Once you know what to look for in guy's body language and subtle little behaviors, you will be able to read him like a book. No more trying to read his mind, you just have to read his body to know what he thinks about you! Crushes are called crushes a reason, because among all the butterflies you also feel crushed because you don't know whether they like you back or not. Well ladies look no further than this handy guide to understanding guys. Having a crush on someone doesn't have to be a guessing game anymore. Look for these signs from a guy you are interested in, and you are good to make your move! Get it Girl!
15 He Looks In Your Direction When He Laughs
Body language experts claim that when people are in a group and they start laughing, people will look at the person they feel closest too. Unless of course, there is someone that they have feelings for in the group in which case that is the first person they will instinctively look at when they laugh. So if you are crushing on someone that you often hang out with in groups, or even if its someone you work with this gives ample opportunity to see where he looks when he laughs. It doesn't count if you are the one making him laughing because obviously he will look at you, so if you really want to know if he is into just make sure you are around when he is laughing. One of the easiest signs to see if someone is into you!
14 He Says Your Name A Lot When He Is Talking To You
Saying someones name a lot is actual a helpful tactic when you are trying to foster closeness with a person. And for some reason when we are attracted to someone, we say their name a lot when we talk to them or about them. It is probably because we like them and when we say their names that sends endorphins to our brain alone. In short, it feels amazing to say the name of the person that you are attracted to! So when you are chatting with the guy you have a crush on and you notice that he says your name a lot that is a pretty good sign he is feeling the same way about you that you are about him. Doesn't it make you feel good hearing your name from the person you are into?
13 When You Guys Make Eye Contact, His Lips Will Part
This is a very small and subtle sign that you probably would never have noticed had we not told you to look for it. The next time you see the object of your desire and you are locking eyes, pay attention to what he does with his lips. Do they part slightly and stay open while he is looking / talking to you? That is because he likes what he's looking at, and there are various reasons as to why this happens. One theory is that he needs to have a deeper intake of breath when he sees you because you get him going, so to speak, and he can get a deeper breath with his mouth open. Don't get confused and think this means his mouth will be hanging open, like we said it will be very subtle and when you notice it will be nothing short of adorable.
12 He Will Touch And Fiddle With His Hair A Lot
Guys and girls do this when they around someone they like! Or just nervous. More often than not though, when we are around the object of our desire it tends to make us a little nervous so we fidget. What's a good thing to fidget with? Hair! This is a big sign that a guy is not only into you but that you make him really nervous. So do your best to get him to chill out around you, you minx! And remember, just because a guy doesn't do all of the things on this list does not mean that he isn't into you. While there are common patterns of body language, they are not universal rules that apply to every person. But we feel like it's safe to say one of the most universal actions of body language is playing with your hair when you are around your crush, so go ahead and believe he is in love with you if you catch him fidgeting with hair a lot when you are around him!
11 His Eyebrows Are Slightly Raised While You Guys Are Talking
Humans do this instinctively when they see something they like. They open their eyes wider because they like what they see so much they want to see as much of it as possible! You may also notice that he often has his eyebrows raised while he is talking to you, and girl that means this man wants you! Maybe he just gives you the one raised eyebrow when he sees you, and you start to feel bad because you think this means he does not like you because you think that both eyebrows need to be raised. This is absolutely not the case! If anything, when he is really really into you he will give you the one eyebrow raised look that will probably send you in a tither.
10 He Will Definitely Be Checking Out Your Body
Let's face it, men are visual and pretty simple creatures. If he likes what he sees, he will definitely be looking you up, looking at all the real estate to offer. A pretty face is not enough for a guy, every guy has their own body type they prefer. Every girl has seen the up down look that guys give, often we are getting the up down from guys we would rather not be checked out by, but thats just the way it is. So get your best assets out on display the next time you know you are going to see him, and he will definitely survey the goods which is when you will know that he like, really likes you. Guys can't help themselves from looking at things they like, so when he is checking you out, its a pretty fool proof sign that he is into you.
9 You Will Catch Him Looking At You A Lot - He Can't Help It!
Do you find that you are always making eye contact with that cutie in your office? For some reason you guys always catch yourselves looking...well, at each other! This is a great way of knowing that a guy is into you. We can't help ourselves from looking at people we like a lot, its natural and we obviously think they are super cute. So when you have a crush on someone, you will be looking at them a lot it is almost a subconscious movement that most of us nave to try very hard not to do when around our crush. So if you are always catching each others eyes, this means he is looking right back at you just as much. Might as well go on a date!
8 If He Has His Legs Crossed, The Foot Of The Top One Will Point To You
You know how there is a guy way of crossing your legs, and a girl way? Well the guy way while it can be annoying to sit next too because they take up more room doing it that way, it can also give away who the guy is interested in. The top leg that is resting on top of the other one, well that is going to be our indicator. If you are sitting in a group of people featuring your crush and you notice him cross his legs, pay attention to where the toes on the top leg are pointing. Is it pointing right at you or that annoying other girl? Who knows why this happens, but our subconscious seems to always be giving away who we are into through our body language.
7 If You Are Walking Together, He Will Gently Touch The Small Of Your Back To Guide You
If a guy that you are not dating tries to pull the ole, 'slide his hand down your back so he can touch your bottom' than that is a good sign that yes he is into, but he is also a creep that doesn't respect boundaries. But if he just lightly touches you in the small of the back when you guys are walking and he wants to guide you into a door or across the street, well that is a good sign that you have a gentleman on your hands that cares about you. It is a very protective and caring move. And when you guys move from the crush stage to the dating stage, that hand will move more south quicker than you realize.
6 He Will Be Licking His Lips - Not In A Creepy Way!
When a person is attracted to someone, our mouth produces more saliva. You may have noticed this happening when you see and or smell food that you really like. Your mouth literally starts watering. Well, turns out that our favourite foods initiate much the same physical reaction from us that our crushes do. It sounds kind of creepy when you read it, but let us assure you that it's the exact opposite of creepy when a guy does this. It will be subtle, cute and also kinda (okay, REALLY) hot! It will have you wishing that you were the one licking his lips! And it makes sense that food and our crushes get the same reaction from people. Think about what you comfort yourself with when you have a broken heart? Thats right, food. What we're saying is that men and food are basically interchangeable.
5 He Breathes In Deeply When He Sees You
He won't realize he is doing this, but there is a very big reason as to why. When a guy sees a woman that he is interested in, he takes in a deep breath subconsciously. The reason for it is because that deep breathe will make him stand up straighter and puff out his chest, a dominant stance that also shows off his body. It's the animalistic part of the human brain. The same way that bids puff out their chests when they are trying to attract a mate, guys do the same thing to get a mate! He wants to look as tall and buff as possible around you, to show you exactly what he has to offer physically speaking. So if you have noticed your crush always taking a deep breath when he sees you, now you know why!
4 If He Has A Glass In His Hand, He Will Be Playing With It
People associate this behaviour too often with women. And when you think about someone playing with a glass, what do you picture? A woman swirling her finger around the rim of a wine glass? Well men do it too. In fact, if they have anything in their hands they will be fidgeting with it when they are around their crush. And as we mentioned earlier, if they don't have anything in their hands to play with they will play with their hair! Basically, when a human being is around someone they are interested in this automatically makes them feel self conscious and nervous which in turn causes them to fidget. Of course people can work on preventing this subconscious behaviour, but for the most part everyone does it.
3 In A Group Of People, He Will Always Be Standing Next To You
Notice that Ross is behind Rachel, and Chandler is behind Monica. These are the two big couples out of that friend group, and while Joey is sort of partnered with Phoebe in the the way they are lined up, his body language is a lot more removed from her than the others. So obviously this rule is always right. People want to be next to the person they are interested in, nothing too hard to believe about that. Even if their trying to play it cool and not be too obvious that they are interested in someone, they will find a way to be close to the person they like. Does anyone else wonder why Joey and Phoebe never got together? Everyone else got paired up except those two, who are the two best ones in our opinion.
2 He Will Find A Way To Always Be Communicating With You Some Way Or Other
You know, girls always think finding out if a guy is into you or not requires a Herculean effort and you basically need to be a mind reader and a spy. That simply is not true. If a guy is into you, unless you are in denial about it it is pretty easy to realize. He will find a way to text you all the time, even if he is working a lot / with the guys / busy. He will pursue you! Too often girls are making excuses for why a guy is so unavailable and think that he still likes her and that simply is not the case. When a guy is into you, you will not be stuck waiting to hear from him that is just a fact. And if you are waiting around all the time to hear from the guy you like, girl he is just not that into you.
1 He Will Be Playful With You
We've all heard it when we were growing up. If a boy is mean to you on the playground it's because he likes you. While this has probably bred some unhealthy ideals of what women should expect in terms of treatment from men, there is some truth to it. The adult version of this is when a guy is always teasing you and joking around. He is doing it because he likes you! They think its cute when they tease you and you get all in a huff about it, and they obviously love making you laugh. Everyone knows the best way to a girls heart is too make her laugh, so guys will try really hard to make a girl they like laugh. After going through this list, you are set to read the mind of any man!