He is so hot that just one look from him and you are weak at the knees. Tonight is the night. You gathered up the courage and asked him out for a sizzling hot date that you hope ends with some incredible sex back at your place. You want everything to go perfectly and that means you have to start preparing. Now.
You want the date to go as smooth as possible and you will need to go through a checklist of crucial supplies (don’t worry, we will go over those in a minute). Being prepared will let you focus on him and on your own personal needs. It will help you relax as you prepare for all the good stuff and make a back up plan in case something goes wrong.
By the time you are done with everything on this list, you will be the master of first dates, second dates, and all your dates from here on after. It doesn't take a neat freak or a ton of caffeine to conquer the list. Just start in the morning and work your way through until it is time to head out that front door and onto your new adventure.
15 Get Your Bedroom Ready
After cleanup and condom stashing, make your bedroom sex-friendly. Set out candles and go find a lighter or a pack of matches for later. Empty the trash bin beside your bed and don’t forget to change your bed sheets. You can also get some massage oil (or just grab the coconut oil) and set it beside your bed for some tantalizing fun. Don’t forget the lube. Get a new tube of the stuff and hide it with the condoms. Everything is more fun with lube.
14 Clean, Shave And Moisturize
After you have done the cleaning and bedroom preparations, it is time to focus on your body. Begin by taking a warm shower or bath. Wash your hair and give yourself a clean shave so your skin is stubble free. When you are done, dab the water off of your skin and moisturize. I normally use coconut oil after my shower, but when my skin is severely dry I will use a combination of both coconut oil and shea butter. You can also use any favorite skin lotion, but keep it unscented if you plan on wearing perfume.
13 Put On Some Sexy Perfume
After you have moisturized, it is time to apply your favorite perfume. Choose a scent that reflects the kind of night you want to have. I tend to lean towards the Christian Dior Poison collection for evenings and nights and I like Coach Poppy for daytime events. Apply your favorite perfume directly onto your skin and use only one to two sprays. You want to intrigue him, not choke him.
12 Wear Your Hottest Delicates
If it is going to be a hot date, you may as well help yourself to feeling super hot by putting on a sexy lingerie set. You know the one I am talking about. You have it hidden in the back of your drawer because you have been saving it for just the right occasion. It is time to get it out and put it on. Even if you are not planning on bringing him back to your place for some one-on-one time, just wearing the lingerie will make you feel wonderful.
11 Wear A Flattering Yet Comfortable Outfit
Dress to impress him. You want to look seductive and inviting, but not cheap and trashy. Wear clothes that fit you properly and avoid stuff that is too baggy or too tight. Top off your outfit with a pair of high heels. Heels make your legs look beautifully long and help accentuate your butt. On the other hand, if you can’t walk in heels then avoid them and find a feminine pair of flats to wear. It is a better option than stumbling around in shoes you can’t walk in.
10 Eat A Healthy Breakfast
Yes, it really is the most important meal of the day, especially when you plan on having a super hot date later that night. Eat lots of fresh fruits for breakfast. Avoid carbs, such as pasta, breads, and rice. Carbs will make you feel bloated and that is the last thing you need to worry about today. Finally, avoid stinky and spicy foods before and during your date. Stay away from onions and garlic unless smelling like a compost heap is a turn on for him.
9 Make Sure Your Apartment Is Clean And Tidy
The last thing you want to do is show him right off the bat that you are a house slob. As soon as you get up in the morning and have breakfast, start cleaning up your house or apartment. Organize your stuff and tuck those tampons in the back shelf. Pick up your bras and make sure you don’t have any underwear hanging on a doorknob. You should also take the time to remove any reminders of a previous boyfriend. Nothing will make your new man more uncomfortable than having to stare at a picture of you and your ex looking happy together.
8 Stock Up On Drinks And Snacks
Since you are hoping that the date will end back at your place, make a quick run to the grocery store. Stock up on plenty of drinks, from bottled water to juice and soda. Grab a bunch of snacks, too, while you are there for those after sex munchies. You can also make a quick booze stop for a favorite wine, beer, or hard liquor. Get whatever you are into and hope he’s into.
7 Don’t Forget Protection
Heaven forbid you and your new man get back to your bedroom and in the midst of some heavy petting discover that you both forgot the condoms. Be prepared. Put a few new condoms in your nightstand and put one in your purse just in case the two of you can’t wait until you are back in the bedroom. Don’t risk an oopsie, even if you are on the pill. He may be hot right now, but the relationship is still too new to know if he really is the one you want for life.
6 Carefully Choose A Music Selection
Good music can make all the difference between a lame night in bed and an unforgettable romp in the sack. It helps if you already have a clue as to what kind of music he likes. If you don’t, check his Facebook page and see if he has any favorite bands selected. If not, go with your instinct and create a playlist for back in the bedroom. Remember, music helps set the mood.
5 Go Easy On The Makeup
You are going on a date, not a Halloween parade. Keep your makeup toned down and natural. Avoid the heavy stuff and only wear waterproof mascara to prevent raccoon eyes. Keep the blush light and your eyes smokey. Check your fingernails while you are at it and repair any chips. You want to look touchable tonight.
4 Have A Backup Plan
While your hopes are high that this will be the most awesome date in the history of womankind, there is always the chance that the date will fizzle out. Set up a backup plan in case you want to leave the date early or on your own. If he is picking you up in his car, carry extra money for cab fare in your purse in case you need a ride home. For safety, tell someone where you are going and who you are going with. This can be a friend or a family member. If something goes wrong, you can contact them for help.
3 Read Up On News And Events
Throughout the day, do some catching up on local news, world events, and read up on some interesting facts on something you enjoy. This gives you something to talk about when you are on your date. If he brings up a world event, you want to show him that you can carry an intelligent conversation about something other than what is related to your work.
2 Give Yourself A Pep Talk
Before you head out the door, give yourself a quick pep talk. You are probably all nerves at this point, but if you did everything on this list, you have no need to worry. Your date is going to be as great as it possibly can be and you and your new man are more than likely going to hit it off. Take a few deep breaths and head out of the door.
1 Have Fun!
Above all else, have fun on your date because if you are not having fun then what is the point of it all? Live in the moment and don’t hang around, waiting to get him back to your bed. Flirt with him and make a lot of eye contact. Don’t rely on him to come up with ways to make the date more exciting. Come up with your own suggestions and stop being so nervous because, in all honesty, he is probably just as excited and nervous as you are.