If you ask a group of guys what their favorite part of sex is, guaranteed a lot of them will say they love when a girl goes down on them. Oral sex can be foreplay, the main event, or just a great way to tease each other. That being said, not every girl is as into this as guys would like. But most of us will do it anyway, because if we like a guy, we want him to be happy. Sometimes, it's even enjoyable.
Still, it's hard to not let your mind wander while you're down there. Hopefully you're thinking about other things related to sex, but that's not always the case. Luckily, your guy never has to know what you're thinking about, but try to stay focused on the task at hand, because oral sex should be fun for everyone involved. Good or bad, here are some of the things girls think about while they're going down on a guy.
13 Do I look good doing this?
Most of us are thinking about our posture and if we look anything like the women we see in adult films (not that we watch them a lot). We always wonder what we look like from your angle, do I look sexy, I bet I look hot, wait.. but what if he thinks I don't look hot? AhhWhen will he finish?
12 Am I doing a good job?
Even if you think you know what you're doing, the fact remains that everyone likes different things. What works on one guy might do absolutely nothing for the next. Needless to say, going down on a guy can be a confusing experience. Most guys will make some kind of indication that they're enjoying what you're doing, but if he's lying there motionless, in complete silence, you're probably going to think he either fell asleep or he's dead. Neither are a good sign.
11 I wonder how long I need to do this
Again, everyone is different. One guy might be ready to finish up in mere minutes, while another is probably never going to get off from oral sex alone, no matter how good you are at it. That's always the risk you take when you head below the belt, which can be enough to make some girls talk themselves out of even starting in the first place. Not many girls are up for a half hour session. It's daunting. Or if you're just using it as foreplay, how do you know when it's time to transition to the next activity? Hopefully he'll let you know... or else it's just guess work.
10 What do I do with his other parts?
Girls don't have testicles, so we have no idea how sensitive they are or are not. Sometimes you'd rather just ignore them completely, but other times you start to think maybe you should let them in on the fun. But what should you do? If you're unsure what the guy likes, it's best to start slow and gentle and see how he responds. But there's always inner thoughts, should I or shouldn't I ? This struggle happens before you just decide to go for it and touch them.