Ghosts are better in bed than real men. At least that is what women who have tried ghost sex are saying, according to The Daily Mail. Called spectrophilia, the attraction to ghosts has a long history involving succubi and incubi, female and male ghosts. It has been a part of every religion, including Christianity and Judaism.
While only 100 years ago, women and men may have cursed these nightly visits, in today's world women are openly embracing and even asking the spirit world for ghost sex. It sounds crazy, but what woman wouldn’t want to be pleasured by a man who doesn’t demand that she cook his dinner or wait on his lazy butt most of the time? With no commitments and no chance of pregnancy, ghost sex sounds pretty darn good.
Ghost sex is not just a fad among the socially insane. It is a growing trend that celebrities have openly admitted to trying out. Many Pagans and Wiccans also admit to the possibility of having sex with beings from the spirit world. Is it for everyone? Probably not, but it is a growing online interest that many women are willing to explore and share their results to the plugged-in world.
Singer Ke$ha is not only beyond awesome, she has also admitted to getting a bit of ghostly action. In 2012, she told listeners on the Ryan Seacrest radio show that she has had "sexy time with a ghost," and that she had written the song "Supernatural" about her experience. She also mentioned having ghost sex on Conan and again on Jimmy Kimmel Live! She claims that her vagina is haunted.
12 They Are Not Scary Ghosts
These sex driven ghosts are not the scary ghosts you see in movies. In fact, very few people have reported actually seeing the ghost they are having sex with. This is because the ghost is believed to be made out of pure energy and consciousness. When the sexual encounters happen, the ghostly being is felt, sometimes heard, and rarely, if ever, seen.
11 Natasha Blasick
Paranormal 2 actress, Natasha Blasick, says she has had more than one encounter with a ghost. In 2014, she told the audience of This Morning, a British talk show, that, "At first I was very confused... then I decided to relax and it was really pleasurable, I really enjoyed it." There are also many non-celebrity people who decided to relax into the situation and enjoy it. For some, these ghostly boyfriends have become a regular occurrence.
10 Psychologists Say It Is Sleep Paralysis
According to many psychologists, ghost sex is nothing more than a symptom of sleep paralysis. Dr. Ciaran O'Keeffe, who is both a psychologist and a paranormal investigator, went on This Morning, a British talk show, and told the viewers to not believe in ghost sex. People who experience sleep paralysis can also have visions of having someone in the room with them or feel a pressure on their chest. This translates into an erotic encounter that only actually happens in the mind.
9 Dan Aykroyd
Comedian and actor Dan Aykroyd has his own special story to tell about a ghostly encounter. In 2010, he published a post on the Huffington Post mentioning his personal experience in his bed when he lived in Mama Cass's Hollywood home. Again, in 2013, Mr. Aykroyd mentioned the experience, stating that he believes that the guy who died and was buried in the hill next to the house crawled into bed with him. By his own account, "I saw the door open, and I rolled over and looked at the bed, and I saw the depression in the mattress, like somebody was getting in there.... And I thought, I'm just going to roll over and snuggle up next to it."
8 Online Lessons Available
If you are interested in trying out ghost sex for yourself, there are online lessons available. Some of the how to articles are very basic, such as light a candle and call out for a ghost lover. Some explanations say that you only need to imagine a ghost lover in your mind and he will come to you. The third method of conjuring up a ghost lover involves ritual and meditation,and makes you actually work for the perfect ghost lover.
7 Lucy Liu
Charlie’s Angel beauty and co-star in Elementary, Lucy Liu is hands down one of the coolest actresses in Hollywood, however I would never have pegged her for having a bit of ghostly action on the side. Back in 1999 she told Us Weekly that she had a strange encounter while resting on her futon. According to her, “Some sort of spirit came down from God knows where and made love to me. It was sheer bliss. I felt everything. I climaxed. And then he floated away. It was almost like what might have happened to Mary. That’s how it felt. Something came down and touched me, and now it watches over me.”
6 It Is A Fetish
Spectrophilia is a phenomenon that has been happening to people all over the world for centuries. It is also classified as a fetish. People actually seek out sex with ghosts and some prefer the spirits over real flesh and blood. It has become the non-messy method of having a lover without all the complications that comes with a living person.
5 Anna Nicole Smith
Model, actress, and TV personality Anna Nicole Smith talked about her ghostly sexual encounter back in 2004 when she told FHM, a men's magazine, that, "A ghost would crawl up my leg and have sex with me at an apartment a long time ago in Texas. I used to think it was my boyfriend, and one day I woke up and it wasn’t. It was, like, a spirit and it — woo! — went up! I was freaked out about it, but then I was, like, 'Well, you know what? He’s never hurt me and he just gave me some amazing sex so I have no problem.'" Sadly, Anna Nicole Smith passed away in February of 2007.
4 You Have To Take It Seriously
Rule number one when trying to attract a ghost into your bed is to take it seriously. Buzzfeed staff writers, Katie Heaney and Arianna Rebolini, decided to try out ghost sex and write about the experience. Both women may have thought this was a great idea in the beginning, but when it came time to getting down to business, they both pretty much admitted that they just weren't feeling it and one of them didn't believe in ghosts to begin with. It is no surprise that their experiment into the ghostly realm of sex didn't work, but it did make for fun reading.
3 Coco Austin
Model, web personality, and wife to Ice-T, Coco Austin told the audience of the Naughty But Nice talk show that she had her own experience with a pervy ghost. Before she married Ice-T, there was an incident where, "I was watching TV...and I was wearing a nightie and I felt my dress move up my leg... I looked down and got freaked out. I pushed it down, watched TV, felt it again and I could see it being pulled up. And then I felt a guy breathing in my ear." Since her marriage, the perverted ghost moved on, never to be felt again.
2 You Can Talk To Your Ghostly Lover
Yes, it is true. Many people report that their ghostly lover talks to them. Some even admit to having lengthy conversations with their ghost lover. Throughout history, ghosts have been reported as being able to speak, so this comes as very little surprise, unless you were hoping for a mute ghost.
1 Paz De La Huerta
Boardwalk Empire actress and model has her own ghostly story to tell. In 2011, she told The New York Times that she met up with the ghost of Elvis Presley while touring Graceland. She said, "I went to his recording studio because sometimes the sensitive people feel him in this room, and I stood in this corner and I felt him. What can I say? I felt him touch me. I felt his spirit go through me and give me pleasure."