There are many things you can do to help make your relationship work, but if a partner is caught out cheating, then you should be out of there straight away. The only problem is - how will you know if they are doing the dirty on you? Cheating is a huge sign of disrespect. It can affect your trust in future partners and destroy your own self-esteem. You should always try talking through how you are feeling first and then if you still remain suspicious, you might want to probe for further clues.
We are all attached to our phones now more than ever, so it's often our personal devices that give away where we have been, who we have been talking to and what we are doing. You should be on the lookout for these following apps as they can only spell trouble.
12 Nosy Trap
Nosy Trap not only allows the cheater to store images where others can not find them but also is super sleuth at finding out exactly who has been looking at the phone. The app displays a fake iPhone screen, then when the code is entered wrong, the front facing camera silently captures a quick snap of whoever is looking at the phone. The next day, the cheater can look and see exactly what time they were snooped on and by who - always keeping that one step ahead of the game.
11 Private Photo (Calculator %)
Private Photo app "Calculator %" looks almost identical to the regular calculator, but when a hidden password is entered this opens up a secret vault of hidden images. Concealing images in this way is a cheaters delight and quite often a calculator would be the last place any suspicious partner would look. Another feature is if the app is open, pictures can be taken automatically and stored directly to the hidden vault instead of appearing in the normal photo library.
10 Fox Private Message
Fox Private Messaging allows the user to instantly delete text messages with a swift shake of the phone. The app opens up a password protected inbox, where if your man is caught sexting he can give his phone a shake and the messages will automatically disappear. The description even mentions that the app is hidden and won't appear so blatantly in the app list.
9 Tiger Text
Tiger Text is not directly marketed at the cheaters market, in fact their website reads: "Securely text your co-workers." Yet the features include the ability to control message lifespans and you can communicate with people without their number being stored on your phone. If your man wanted to communicate with co-workers in such a secretive manner - surely he could just drop them an email?
8 GPS Tracking
For cheating partners, GPS tracking is the ultimate wingman, where the location of a partner can be checked at any time. It allows cheaters to eliminate the chance of being caught "in the moment" if their partners arrive home early. The Find My iPhone app allows users to pinpoint the exact location of someone's phone using just their Apple ID and password - and who isn't permanently attached to their phone? Some GPS devices allow you to track vehicles as well - so if they receive an alert that you have left work, it will allow them plenty of time to wrap up their other business.
If you spot the Cate app on your boyfriend's phone then this is a sure sign that he might be up to no good. This app is useful for anyone who wants to keep their affairs on the side quiet. It completely erases any calls and text messages that are sent, or that come in.Cate is just another useful app for someone looking to have an affair on the side. Also messages can not be read without a secret code being unlocked.
6 Dead Tone
At one point your boyfriend might want to try "ghosting" his bit on the side when things get too much. This is where he will end all contact and stop returning calls or replying to text messages. It's fair to say that his bit on the side might not take it too well. So this is where DeadTone is required, this app allows you to pick the numbers that you want to hear a "Dead Tone" when they call, a replica of an "out of service" tone. If your partner has this app on their phone, they will be trying to get rid of someone and you might want to ask who that is.
There are hundreds on online dating sites, where anyone with an internet connection can get free hook ups. Some big name sites like Match or OK Cupid allow you to find a soul mate, then there is Tinder - the app that allows you to find your play mate. Marie Claire reviewed the app as, "easy to use on the run", "addictive", and that it's, "Hard to focus. The game-style of Tinder means it’s really easy to keep playing and forget about that hottie you were messaging yesterday." This is essentially a platform to find no-strings-attached sex, and not an app to "just meet new friends."
4 Lookout Security & Antivirus
The Lookout Security & Antivirus app will make any player feel like the James Bond of cheaters world. This app has the ability to completely wipe an entire phone and return it to factory settings, getting rid of any traces of wrongdoing. With all memory being wiped, this Android only app can also be switched to self-destruct mode from a computer in case they have had their phone swiped from their hands. This is a serious last resort for the common cheater who's been backing into a corner.
3 Ashley Madison’s App
Ashley Madison's motto is bluntly: "Life is sort. Have an affair." The app plays quite like Tinder - you get to meet and hook up discreetly with others, however the majority of users are married, so they offer a whole cheating package. On a bank statement, an elite $150-$200 membership will appear as AMDB. The app has pin protection and an elite membership allows you access to a private line, so secret phone calls are completely untraceable. These guys are not messing around when it comes to constructing the perfect affair and know almost every trick in the book.
The DateMate app is every serial love rat's best friend. If your boyfriend is a real player and has several girls on the go at once, he will need to find a way of keeping track of when he's meeting and where. After all, he doesn't want to run the risk of writing it down. DateMate allows him to store names, addresses, phone number, preferences and even "progress" of each of his separate dates. Because it's a busy life when you're a player.
Would you suspect your boyfriend is not being 100% honest just because he has the Grindr app on his phone? Well, Grindr is a gay and bi-sexual app aimed at men for them to hook with other men. Search preferences allow the user to filter other men by age, height, weight, body type, ethnicity, looking for, and relationship status. The app is either free or they can pay for an elite membership which opens up even more opportunities to hook up. If you do find this app on your boyfriend's phone then now might be a good time for a talk together.